(noun) 1. a fixed post with a ring to which a horse can be hitched to prevent it from strayingAlso, common term used for getting married, or "hitched". Too bad, it does not seem to prevent the straying. Maybe if we did not treat spouses like horses, only bring them out of the barn when we need them, there would be a lot less straying.
For the last four days, my parents kept our boys and I have been able to spend some alone time with my wife. We completed our Christmas shopping and spent some time just strolling around Colonial Williamsburg. We also spent time with friends.
The thing is, we don't take this kind of time like we should. There is always more to be done, whether it is work, social obligations, or kids activities. You name it, it can become an excuse not to take time together as a couple.
These times are important to reconnect, recalibrate and rejuvenate your relationship. It does not have to be a trip to the Bahamas, it can be pretty simple, as long as you are alone together. If you are married, I think it is a foundational principle of success in marriage.
When was the last time you got away with the one you love?
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I totally agree with carving out time to be ALONE with your spouse. We are working on year 30 and finding those times to walk and talk, stroll thru the park, catch a sunset, as well as enjoying the getaways are crucial to not only surviving but in keeping the fire alive in your marriage. I have counseled way too many couples who never get a babysitter so they can date. Get creative-its worth it!
I love Colonial Williamsburg and used to go there often when we lived in Hampton.
I do love to get away with my husband but it's wonderful just sitting beside him every night.
He's one of my best friends!
Margie :)
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